Attraction: influenced by appearance

Attraction is visual, so if you're looking for love, make sure that you're looking good whenever you encounter people! This is easier said than done. The other day, I needed a locksmith when I was not looking my best.

I was working in my sweats, no makeup. When the locksmith showed up, I was impressed. He was fun, energetic and good-looking.

I didn't feel attractive. And I didn't have the confidence to flirt with him...and I teach people how to flirt!

It's all about confidence

The magic of looking your best is that it increases your confidence.

So, go through your closet so that it's easy to throw on an attractive, put-together outfit.

Get a haircut that always looks good.

If you work at home, take a few minutes when you first get up, and throw on a flattering outfit (and makeup, if you're a woman over 30).

If you do that, and run into someone attractive when you're taking out the trash, lock yourself out, or whatever else happens, you'll be open to a flirtatious encounter.