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Successful Dating for Everyone | Get a Love Life!

Why Get A Love Life?

Meet a few of my satisfied clients

Of course, I've changed their names and identifying details. But the stories are true.

She was getting over a breakup after a long term relationship

"Christine" was single again after her long-term boyfriends moved out. While she hoped that he would return, she knew that she needed to move forward. She wasn't quite sure what she wanted to do or how she wanted to approach dating. So she signed up for dating coaching.CoupleRopesWeb

  • She completed "Recovering From a Breakup Exercises," and started focusing on creating a positive future.
  • I coached her through identifying what she wanted in a relationship, and the ins and outs of dating dynamics. She practiced her new-found body language skills.
  • She began to relish her new attractiveness, started meeting available men everywhere and found that she actually enjoyed dating.

Months later, when her ex asked her to resume their relationship, she decided against it. Instead, she chose to move forward with a man she had dated for a few months who asked her to pursue a future together.

"I went from zero prospects, to men asking me out right and left. My friends can't wait to hear my next installment of 'my dating escapades.' Then once I started dating, our meetings gave me a forum to stay clear on my long term goals, and not get too hung up emotionally at the early stages of dating. I'm now confident in my attractiveness, and my ability to enjoy dating and have fun on the way to meeting my Mr.Right. I can't thank Annie enough or recommend her more highly. She is my secret weapon in the dating arena, don't leave home without her."

She hadn't dated for over a decade

"Catherine" divorced in her twenties, and spent several decades developing her professional career, pursuing her passions, and having an occasional relationship here and there. As she approached sixty, she told me that she wanted to find a loving, compatible guy to grow old with. She took a couple of month-long seminars, and consulted with me a few times. And she did her homework.CoupleAfrAmerWeb

  • She followed the dating principles of Get A Love Life's dating coaching, making the most of her new-found understanding of men.
  • She started online dating for the first time. She used Online Dating Makeover guidelines to create a magnetic profile and emails that got responses.
  • After updating her image and non-verbal communication skills, she began to find, meet and flirt with new men as she went through her day.

And, now she's in a great long-term relationship.

"In about a month, I went from no dates for at least 10 years, to a dating life, if not yet a love life. And I'm actually beginning to believe that the love life is possible. UPDATE! Well it seemed impossible, but after almost two years, I am still dating one of the men I met online. Actually we are moving in together. Dating does not seem like a strong enough word. We are serious and I guess I do have to admit to having a love life now. So thank you Annie! Get A Love Life has changed my life."

He couldn't get out of "the friend zone"

"Steve" was great at making friends with women. The trouble was, he couldn't get a woman to see him in a romantic light. He got into occasional relationships with women who pursued him, with whom he had no long-term interest. He decided that it was time to make a difference, so he signed up for coaching.Couple30sWeb

  • He updated his "look" and became proficient at body language and signaling. Women started to pay attention to him...in a good way.
  • He discovered how to flirt and approach women in a fun and successful manner. He found the confidence to talk to new women every day.
  • After he created and posted a magnetic online profile, I coached him through search and email strategies, and he began meeting women online.

Now he's confidently meeting and dating women who see him in a romantic light. And, he's having fun doing it!

"After making a commitment to work on my personal life, meaning putting aside the time and making the effort, working with Annie helped me discover that I didn't have game, or a plan to meet women... Her coaching was very personalized to my situation and dating circumstances. I liked her vast range of knowledge on men, women, relationships and dating. I admired her ability to motivate me to do things I wouldn't normally do. I'd recommend her."

She's a widow who tried online dating for six months, without getting one email

After being widowed following a twenty five year marriage, "Denise" decided it was time to start dating. Except, she couldn't get a date. When she hired me, she was at her wit's end. Then, she signed up for coaching.CoupleInterracialWeb

  • She updated her appearance and wardrobe. She honed her body language and signals so that she appeared single and available.
  • She followed my system for meeting men in person. She sharpened her flirting skills.
  • We completely made over her online profile, and I coached her through search-strategy and email correspondence.
  • Her approach to dating transformed once she understood how to translate her date's conversation and actions.

And, now she's getting married.

"With Annie's help, I found a great guy. We talk, we're great companions, we are pursuing a life together. What more can you ask? Annie was a great help!"

She'd been divorced for five years, but couldn't keep a guy around

"Mary" was dating "Ron" for several months, and felt that he truly was her soul-mate. But his unpredictable behavior made her feel out of control, and their relationship was filled with drama. Finally, he left for good.CoupleChunkyWeb

This situation was starting to feel a little too familiar. After a twenty year marriage, all she wanted to do was settle down again. But every guy she fell for wouldn't commit.

She was pretty sure that she was the common denominator in these failed relationships. But she couldn't figure out what she needed to do differently. So, she signed up for coaching.

  • She identified what was really important to her in a realistic and focused manner.
  • I coached her through new, unfamiliar dating behavior.
  • After an Online Dating Makeover, she followed a multi-tiered strategy to meet new men.

Good men started falling for "Mary." And asking to commit. But, after dating one great guy, "Bill," for a while and deciding that he wasn't quite right, she went back on the market. But,"Bill" didn't give up, and "Mary" came to the realization that he's her lifetime soul-mate. They married in Hawaii, and she reports that life has never been better.

"Annie knows what she is doing. She has a great perspective, is easy to work with, and gets great results!"

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Whether you're divorced, widowed or single for too long, coaching helps you take control of your love life

heart icon vector tinyCoaching supports you as you establish new, positive dating habits that really work.

You'll avoid destructive, go-nowhere patterns so that you don't waste time and emotional energy on yet another dead-end romance.

heart icon vector tinyYou'll gain understanding of how the opposite sex really thinks about different dating situations.

You'll master new ways to meet people, and become confident flirting in-person and online.

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You'll discover how to make the most of online dating.

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It's not about your past. It's about moving towards a new future.

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If serendipity is not working for you, it's time for dating coaching.

Discover how dating coaching can work for you

*Names and identifying details have been changed in order to protect privacy.

Dating advice for every budget

Expert dating and relationship advice for every budget

If you are motivated and disciplined, it won't cost you a cent

My articles about dating and relationship dilemmas appear in Annie's Dating Blog, SFExaminer.com, Fifty Plus Fabulous, and other publications. As a certified relationship coach who has spent thousands of hours researching love and relationships, I'll give you the same honest, insightful and up-to-date advice that I give my clients.

If you want help with a puzzling dating or relationship situation, send your question to annie@getalovelife.net. I will change your name and identifying details, then reply in my blog.

Every Friday I send out free dating tips in my newsletter.

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Get started by focusing on the one thing that's most important

Low-cost programs are designed to quickly make a difference. HeartTarget-copy

  • Not getting satisfying results from online dating? Get an Online Dating Makeover.
  • If meeting new people is a challenge for you, a Flirting Field Trip will transform your interactions with the opposite sex!
  • Sign up for my Friday Dating Tips newsletter so that you'll get advance notice of dating workshops, webinars and teleseminars.
  • Soon, you'll be able to purchase dating advice products about the most common dating predicaments.

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Transform your love life with dating coaching

If you are ready to say goodbye to dating frustration and confidently head into a great relationship, coaching will help you to break through the obstacles that are getting in your way!

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heart icon vector tinyIf you prefer move forward with a focused coaching program with the camaraderie of a group, choose the Dating Insider Group coaching program. You'll get the support of ongoing coaching, while your individual concerns are addressed in a group setting in a weekly call.

More about One-on-One Coaching        More about the Dating Insider Group

Fun activities increase your dating confidence

Build up your dating know-how with a group activity

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Broaden your dating dexterity with Get A Love Life! I speak to various groups, appear on panels or partner with other dating experts every month or so. I also hold workshops, webinars or seminars several times a year. I'm also available to give a private talk or class to your group.

Get dating tips while you're enjoying fun events

I frequently speak about dating at various events. I team up with organizations such as The Society for Single Professionals, ProGuild Social and Liza the Wine Chick to enhance their events by delivering dating tips and advice while you're having fun meeting new people.

I've also been featured at events produced by Singles Bar Camp, BATS Improv, Bay Area Boomers, The Ultimate Woman's Expo, Solano Singles, Beachcombers Singles, ABC-KGO TV, The Widows of Fallen Firefighters, and others.

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See upcoming events

Contact me if you would like me to speak or participate in your event.

Workshops, Webinars and Seminars

Practicing new skills in an interactive group is a great way to polish your dating smarts. Whether you're discovering the ins and outs of modern dating in an all-day workshop, gaining online dating skills in a webinar series, or taking a multi-part seminar, you'll become a more confident dater. 

Each year, I schedule several classes which are open to the public. I also give private classes to various groups.

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Contact me if you would like me to speak or participate in your event.

Perfect your flirting skills while I watch your back

A flirting field trip is a great way to discover dynamic ways to meet new people with a safety net.

  • You'll have more possibilities to choose from once you hone your flirting skills!
  • Join a group or one-on-one Flirting Field Trip.
  • You'll meet available people in a fun environment with me as your wing-woman!

Start enjoying flirting and meeting new people

Dating and Relationship Advice Products

Coming soon! Dating and relationship advice products

Soon you'll be able to get products with focused dating tips which will help you to succeed with the opposite sex.  Each one will address a different topic, and move you towards a great love life.

Available in Summer 2011

I teamed up with Alpha Male Coach, Carlos Xuma to create a video series "He Says, She Says: Secrets of how to find, connect and keep "the one" revealed!" We originally presented our program to a group of midlife singles in San Francisco.

The first program of  "The Ultimate Guide to Finding LoveĀ©" series will be released.

Upcoming Events

Classes, media and singles events

My events are bound to give you a fresh perspective about dating. When I'm speaking with a live audience, I love to address on-the-spot questions, so be sure to bring your top dating dilemmas! Whether I'm giving a talk, teaching a class or chatting about dating with interviewer, I don't hold anything back.

Check out upcoming events

Top Ten Reasons You Need My Coaching

You don't have to live with dating frustration

Whether you're just back in the dating market, or have been out there for longer than you care to imagine, here are the top ten reasons to get Get A Love Life's dating advice.

10You are sick and tired of meeting the wrong people--or never meeting anyone.

  9If you're a woman, when an interesting guy asks for your number, he doesn't call or won't return your calls. If you're a man, you keep getting shot down when you ask a woman for her number.

  8Everyone you want to get involved with is emotionally unavailable.

  7If you're a woman, you wonder why men act really interested in you...and disappear once you're falling in love. If you're a man, you wonder if any attractive, normal women who want a relationship actually exist.

  6You don't know why your relationship isn't going anywhere.

  5You've been seeing the same people online for years.

  4You are motivated and committed to making positive changes in your love life.

  3You want to fall asleep with someone you can count on.

  2You want to make love with someone you can trust.

  1You want to share the rest of your life with a best friend and lover.

If you want to turn your love life around, my programs will make the difference!

My specialty is dating coaching for midlife and senior singles.

Find out which coaching tool is best for you

If you want to make a difference in your love life, click here to email me today, and we'll schedule a free 20 minute consultation to see if coaching is right for you.