If you're a guy dating at midlife...
Who thought you'd be dating at this age? After all, you're old enough to know who you are, what you like, and what you want. You're confident in your profession, enjoy your leisure activities, and you're comfortable with your life.
You're at the point where you want to find a caring, sexy, romantic woman to share life with--someone who appreciates you as you really are. After all, there's no way that you're going to turn into "the perfect man."
If you find that the road to love has more obstacles than you care to encounter, consider coaching--from a woman who really understands men, women and dating dynamics.
Dating has transformed in the last couple of decades
Not only has society changed, technology has made a huge difference in how people connect.
The best places to meet women are not what they used to be
Even though many people still connect through friends and social groups, even more meet through online dating, singles groups and other organizations you never heard of until recently. As a dating coach, it's my business to keep track of the best ways for you to meet that special woman. I'm also an expert on using online dating technology to your best advantage.
The "rules of dating" are different in the twenty first century
Do you get her phone number or her email address? Do you call, email or text her? (The answer is...ask her which she prefers.)
How do you dress for a first date? Where should you meet for a first date? How long should your date be? (The answers are...Best wardrobe choice: Whatever you'd wear to work on "Casual Friday." Meet in a public place, like a cafe, well-populated park or lunch spot. Keep your first date short--under an hour. If it's a great date, you'll leave her wanting more. Or, if it's a disaster, it will be a quick one.)
When you're dating, you're sure to have lots of questions
You'll have more questions...Who pays? What should I talk about? What about holding hands, kissing, having sex - How do I know what's OK? When should I call?
What if I don't like her--how can I leave without hurting her feelings? Does she want to control my life, or is she just anxious? Can I trust her?
We're getting serious--when do I approach her about a pre-nup? Does she want what I want--and do we want each other?
As a dating expert, my advice is based on research, training and experience
I'll answer those questions, and more, based on your individual situation. I'll translate woman-speak, so that you'll get a handle on the best way to get her to understand you.
As you continue to date, I'll be in your corner giving you the confidence to handle even the trickiest situations. With me as your coach, you'll be well on your way to success!
Testimonials by Men
I met Annie Gleason when she was a speaker at an event sponsored by the society of Professional Singles. I had recently returned to the Bay Area after living in another part of California for more than 30 years. Annie was informative and the points she made I found interesting. Subsequently, I attended a small group workshop weekly. Annie was the facilitator and we discussed issues of dating for midlife singles. The workshop assisted me personally in my interactions with women and dating in general. Annie also assisted me in decorating my condo. She visited my condo, designed plans on location, size of furniture.etc. For me it was very helpful. Working with Annie as a Dating Coach has been a positive experience. I would recommend her to men and women who are navigating in the world of a midlife single.
- Dennis T
After my divorce, I was determined to find a smart, attractive, accomplished, nurturing woman, but I was frustrated by the progress I was making on my own. I was meeting women, but none was right for me. Annie showed me how to master flirting skills, both online and in person. She helped me figure out where to meet women and how to approach them. I learned a lot about women, especially how they perceive certain dating situations. She updated my online dating profile, advised me to get a professional photographer--it was invaluable advice. She taught me how to write effective emails, and now I've found a wonderful woman online at a service recommend by Annie I would have never chosen. We're incredibly happy.
- Matt
Annie spent a couple of hours determining what colors of clothing looked great on me by placing many swatches of different fabric colors next to my face. Then we went to Macy’s and tried on several shirts and pants until we found the right combinations. I walked out with three gorgeous shirts and a couple of pairs of pants that made me feel like a million dollars. And now I know what colors look great on me. Thanks, Annie!
- Robert
- San Francisco
Annie's straightforward and practical advice helped me polish up my online profile. Since I revised it, I have been getting 'hits', and have started meeting new people again.
- Don
I had been married for close to thirty years. Getting back to the dating scene has been adventurous but brutal. Your classes have helped in dealing with the pot holes, speed bumps and wicked curves on this highway of life, and to help me to proceed at a more cautious pace. Putting the petal to the metal in my youth had its day but now that I am 57 going the speed limit makes more sense. Your classes have given me a better roadmap to follow in finding that wonderful love life. I am still out there looking for a wonderful love life. Planting seeds, taking it slower, and making sure it is mutual. Happy Trails, Stephen F
- Stephen F