Dating Insider Group Coaching
Discover the secrets to getting a great love life with a group of others. You'll get the benefits of my individual coaching combined with support from others facing similar challenges. As you follow each step, your confidence and your dating life will improve. You'll soon be on the road to love!
Coaching paves the road to dating success
You're a great catch. Smart, successful, kind, thoughtful and so much more. You can make almost anything happen when you set your mind to it.
With one exception. Love. When you see someone getting into a successful relationship, you wonder "How did they do that? What do they have that I don't?"
It feels like you attract all of the wrong people. The commitment-phobes, the cheaters, the losers. The ones who are attracted to you just aren't your type.
You want someone to love, but you are not going to settle for some loser. You're not desperate. You lead a fulfilling life...except for the inescapable feeling that, without a partner, something truly significant is missing.
Why, you wonder, is it so hard for a wonderful person like you to find love? Would you like to get the inside dating story with a group of people like you, who are looking for love?
When you're in my coaching program, you'll have a heart-centered expert advocate in your corner. You'll receive clear-headed dating advice based on my years of experience helping others like you find love.
As a dating expert, I'll help you make sense of your love life
It's a complex world. You hire a financial planner to help manage your finances. If you want to improve your game of golf or tennis, you hire a coach. And, in today's rapidly changing dating scene, it makes sense to have a dating coach at your side as you move towards love.
It's easy to let fear, fantasy, worry and other negative emotions rule your love life. You may continue to engage in self-destructive dating patterns in the mistaken belief that they will lead you to success. But, you're not seeing your blind spots. And, you're not seeing your behavior through the eyes of the opposite sex.
If you ask your friends for advice, they won't always tell you the whole truth. That could get too complicated. They are probably too close to see your situation clearly.
As a dating expert, I'll tell you what will really work so that you can realize your relationship goals.
Coaching identifies behaviors that are holding you back. It illuminates your blind spots and gives you new behaviors to replace comfortable patterns that make sense to you, but end up shooting you in the foot.
- My step-by-step action program is tailored to your individual needs and goals.
- We'll uncover your blind spots and banish your obstacles to success.
- You'll learn the skills you need to be confident, sexy and appealing throughout all of the phases of dating.
- As you move through the program, you'll celebrate new real-life successes as you master each week's module.
- You'll gain a deep understanding of how others actually respond to dating situations while practicing an innovative game-plan.
And you'll come away a winner!
You'll gain from my personal attention combined with the synergy of a group
Whether you choose One-on-One coaching or group coaching depends on how much of my individual attention you need. Your questions will be answered during weekly group calls, where I'll address the concerns of everyone in the group. You'll also gain new insights from a different coaching module each week. And, you'll still get the benefit of The Ultimate Guide to Finding Love© Five-Steps-To-Dating-Success Program.
You'll also have the opportunity to have phone conversations with me on a regularly scheduled basis. You'll team up with other members of your group who are committed to achieving the same relationship goals. As you follow the program, you'll quickly start seeing results.
Coaching works because you're accountable each week. You can't just let your love life slide until you're counting down to the next holiday and wondering why you didn't get to a loving relationship for yet another year.
I'll guide you through the ups and downs of dating. I'll encourage you in new-found patterns, and call attention to your repeating behavior that has sabotaged you in the past, so that you don't repeat your mistakes. Combine that with feedback from the group, and you'll stay motivated while you attain your goals.
Dating Insider Group will show you how to
Approach people with confidence, using the best ways to
- Uncover the best places to meet single, available, worthwhile men or women
- Create a fun, classy attractive mindset
- Flirt without seeming desperate or foolish
- Utilize a winning online dating game-plan
Get to the first date
- Smoothly move from saying "Hi" to getting a date
- Successful contact approaches: phone or text
- Irresistible email strategies

Create successful first few dates
- Move forward without scaring him or her away
- Minimize analyzing and future fantasies before you know where it's going
- Master the dos and don'ts of dating etiquette so you'll confidently maneuver through common pitfalls
- Test for players, losers and cheaters, and eliminate dating drama
Moving towards intimacy
- Confidently move forward without second-guessing
- Clearly communicate your feelings about sex, exclusivity and commitment
- Handle emotional landmines without losing your cool
Growing a relationship
- Design a plan to handle baggage with aplomb
- Is it healthy compromise or settling? How to tell the difference
- How to keep the passion alive long-term
- Which tactics to utilize for the best outcome: your mutual happiness
Managing breaking up and rejection
- Should you stay or go? What to do when you're not sure
- Break up and rejection strategies
- Recover from a breakup in a focused way, so you're not wasting your time
- Move on in a positive way
Coaching revamps and revitalizes your dating life
If you're frustrated by the dating scene, wondering why it's so hard to find someone worthwhile who wants to be in a relationship, one-on-one coaching is the ticket! Like others who have followed my program, you'll reap the benefits of my coaching.
You'll begin meeting single available people in more places than you imagined possible.
Mid-life dating is different! Things have changed, and being on the dating scene can be downright intimidating. What worked in your twenties often isn't successful at getting you the love that you want now.
You'll discover the secrets of attracting men or women. And, how many of the things that impress your friends don't do a thing for the opposite sex.
Individualized coaching is your ticket to success! It takes your background, personality and needs into consideration, and builds your confidence and dating savvy.
You'll master the skills to recalibrate the signals you're sending so that it's easy to move forward.
You'll get past your blind spots, make the most of meeting opportunities, and get the hang of approach and timing strategies.
You'll get a handle on man or woman-speak, and truly understand what is really going on in your love life! No more endless post-date analysis.
While you're revamping your dating patterns, you'll discover new coping strategies, and master the skills it takes to reach your goals.
You'll understand how to manage physical intimacy so that it's in your long-term interest, without pushing your date away. You'll never again wonder how to manage your risk of losing your date over lovemaking.
Most of my clients find that their dating lives begin to improve shortly after starting my program.
You'll get the knack of managing chemistry and expectations. You'll be able to avoid being blinded by someone who has no intention of following through.
I'm passionate about helping my clients to get a great love life. .
You'll gain the skills to handle your insecurities in a positive way during that "in between time" when you know he or she might be The One, but before you to commit.
Soon you'll easily be using a successful game-plan to find, charm and capture your match!
Email me with your questions. You can also check the FAQ section for answers to frequently asked questions.
Coaching involves helping you modify patterns that have not worked in the past to help you become more successful in attaining your goals. It does not involve looking into your childhood, or analyzing why you do certain things. That is properly handled by a therapist. Referrals available.
Testimonials by Women
Annie helped me not just get a handle on how to go about navigating the dating scene in my 40's but also how to go about getting what I need in life! I spent 6 years trying to figure out the dating world - picking the same men over and over. Annie helped me realize that attraction should not be the key factor in choosing a mate. I took a chance on a man that I would have passed up before I met Annie. I am now happily married and madly in love with a man who treats me like a princess. Her guidance changed my life! I highly recommend Annie if you need help getting what you want out of life!
- Mary
In the process of working with Annie on Get a Love Life, my new-found appreciation, empathy for and understanding of the opposite sex has had a profound impact on not only my love life, but my life in general. I don't think it was mere coincidence that I've now found the love of my life and am happier than I've ever been in a relationship--ever! It's never too late and it's pretty much guaranteed that Annie can shed light and enlightenment on your journey. Thank you, Annie!
- Teresa
I got more hits after you helped me with my profile in August. I have now met a nice guy who lives in San Mateo. We've been dating about 2 months. I owe it all to you... I am referring my friend to you.
- Lorrie
Annie Gleason's Get a Love Life is just what I needed. I am a really busy professional woman who talked a lot about meeting "someone", but never did anything to make that happen. I complained about the lack of available straight men in San Francisco. I think I expected to meet them on the TV set in my living room. Since working with Annie, I have overcome my inertia (and a lot of my fear). I have met 3 men I would be willing to date and I am dating one of them consistently. One I met in my neighborhood and the other two through on-line dating. Yes, I finally put together that profile, the catchy name and got pictures I wasn't embarrassed to show to the world. Through Annie's help (and her class about on-line dating), it was hardly painful at all. Just a little effort. In about a month, I went from no dates for at least 10 years, to a dating life, if not yet a love life. And I'm actually beginning to believe that the love life is possible. UPDATE! Well it seemed impossible, but after almost two years, I am still dating one of the men I met online. Actually I am exclusively seeing him. Dating does not seem like a strong enough word. We are serious and I guess I do have to admit to having a love life now. So thank you Annie! "Get a love life" has changed my life.
- Catherine
I took Annie’s class on writing my profile and it was amazing. After working with her and rewriting the profile, when I launched it I had lots of responses and actually started dating two very nice men. Annie has great tips on how to reach out and attract men through the profile that I would not have thought of at all. She really helped a lot and I highly recommend her for this “new way” of mid-life dating. All the rules are different now and we need Annie to help guide us through this process and steer us in the right direction so we can meet Mr. Right and live happily ever after.
- Cindy E