If you're a woman dating at midlife

Who thought you'd be dating at this age? You've mastered everything you need to know to manage your life. You've established your lifestyle and career, developed friendships and, perhaps, brought up your kids.Red-heart-white-maze-copy

But, when you're dating, you feel like a stranger in a strange land. It's almost like you reverted back to your sixteen year old self.

You wonder how you can feel so confused around dating when you are so competent in the other areas of your life. Occasionally you think about giving it up. But in the end, you want a love life with a man you can trust.

If the road to love has more obstacles than you care to encounter, consider coaching--from a woman who really understands men, women and dating dynamics.

Dating has transformed in the last couple of decades

Not only has society changed, technology has made a huge difference in how people connect.

The best places to meet men are not what they used to be

Even though many people still connect through friends and social groups, even more meet through online dating, singles groups and other organizations you never heard of until recently.

As a dating coach, it's my business to keep track of the best ways for you to meet that special guy. I'm also an expert on using online dating technology to your best advantage.

The "rules of dating" are different in the twenty first century

 

  • How long do you keep emailing a guy online before meeting in person? (The answer is...move to a phone call after a few email exchanges over a week or so. If he doesn't offer to call, tell him that you're looking forward to hearing the sound of his voice. Yes, it's corny. But, as one of my clients happily says "it works like catnip for men.")Heart-Bubbles-copy
  • How do you dress for a first date? Where should you meet for a first date? How long should your date be? (The answers are...Best wardrobe choice: Whatever you'd wear to work on "Casual Friday"--but a tad sexier. Be sure to wear a smile. Meet him in a public place, like a cafe, well-populated park or lunch spot. Keep your first date short--under an hour. If it's a great date, you'll leave him wanting more. Or, if it's a disaster, it will be a quick one.)
  • How can I tell if he’s serious about me?  He doesn’t want to commit – how long should I wait? (The answer is...He'll tell you if he's serious and wants a commitment. Until then, keep dating others. You'll learn why in my coaching courses.)

When you're dating, you're sure to have lots of questions

  • Where do I meet men to date?
  • Should I approach him? Should I call him?
  • Are there any decent men who are interested in a woman my age?
  • Who pays for a date? What should I disclose on the first date?
  • Should I call and thank him after a great date?
  • What about sex –how can I tell if he is going to love me and leave me?
  • What if I don't like him--how can I leave without hurting his feelings? Can I trust him?
  • Are all of the interesting ones terrified of commitment?
  • How come I have it together in the rest of my life, but don't have a clue how to get into a happy, trusting relationship with someone? I can’t even meet anyone remotely appropriate.

As a dating expert, my advice is based on research, training and experience

two hearts valentine 08 tinyI'll answer those questions, and more, based on your individual situation.You'll get a man's perspective on dating, so that you'll have a handle on the best way to communicate with him.

Rather than calling your girlfriends for answers--each one has a different take on it based on her experience--contact a dating expert.

As you continue to date, I'll be in your corner giving you the confidence to handle even the trickiest situations. With me as your coach, you'll be well on your way to success!

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Testimonials by Women

I wanted to let you know about a valuable service worth sharing. During the dating process, have you ever felt confused and not sure how to interpret and respond to how your romantic friend is behaving? Recently, I had become very frustrated by mixed messages I was receiving from a man that I had been dating for several months. It seemed that as soon as I thought I knew what was going on, things became confusing again. In my professional life, I had leveraged business coaches on numerous occasions yet hadn't ever thought of using a coach for my dating life! I finally turned to "Get a Love Life" dating coach Annie Gleason, to help me make sense of my confounding relationship situation. Annie helped me to understand how men see women and relationships and then gave me tools to find love in a much more positive and successful way. One might ask why I didn't turn to a male friend to help me figure this out....in short, Annie is an expert and more unbiased than one can expect a friend (or relative) to be. My only regret is that I did not contact her sooner as the little yellow flags started to surface..... So, whatever stage you are in - considering dating, just starting to date someone, three months into a relationship - and if you have felt like it sure would be helpful to have an expert to advise or help you think about something differently - I highly recommend you contact Annie Gleason for her coaching!

  • Laura L

Before working with Annie I was skeptical if dating coaching would work. I thought, 'there's no magic bullet that is going to help me Mr. Right- no matter what advice she gives me, I'm still going to have to go out there and find him myself'. Well, Annie is no magic bullet, but more like a magic potion that works synergistically with your unique assets to help you be successful in the dating world. I had just come out of a long term relationship that was dis-satisfying and going no where. I felt discouraged about my prospects of finding love and my ego had taken a major hit. Annie helped me gain perspective on my previous choices in relationships and clarify what I really want now. I came to really trust her advice and take the baby steps required to 'put myself out there' in a dating sense. It works! I went from zero prospects, to men asking me out right and left. My friends can't wait to hear my next installment of 'my dating escapades'. Then once I started dating, our meetings gave me a forum to stay clear on my long term goals, and not get too hung up emotionally at the early stages of dating. I'm now confident in my attractiveness, and my ability to enjoy dating and have fun on the way to meeting my Mr.Right. I can't thank Annie enough or recommend her more highly. She is my secret weapon in the dating arena, don't leave home without her!

  • Christine

I thank my lucky stars (everyday) I found Annie!

  • Cynthia

I thought that I was hopeless until I met Annie. She really is a miracle worker! After updating my wardrobe, working with my body language, helping me to make my home more welcoming to a man, I met the best guy in years. And he thinks I'm wonderful! Without Annie coaching me, encouraging me to meet more people every day, this would have never happened.

  • Janet

I am so happy to have met Annie Gleason. When I first met her, I realized that she had a lot of experience in the way of men, women, and the art of courtship. I was making some hideous mistakes. Some of Annie's infomercials really struck a chord in me and it was those infomercials led me to take some counseling sessions. I had always been slow and challenged when it came to dating. Annie shared how men and women differ in their perceptions of the mating game. Now I understand what it takes to get out there and meet men. I actually went out and practiced socializing with strangers. She is a wonderful mentor. It's never too late to find love. How cool is that?

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