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 For those of you who are determined to win at dating, we offer Our Six Steps to Success Program! We combine coaching with several other programs to multiply your chances for achieving your goals.
Our Six Step Program helps to assure your dating success. This is an in-depth program where we help you to eliminate the landmines that have been in your way in the past. We work hand in hand with you over 6, 12 or 24-month programs. In order for you to have the best chance for success, you have to commit to investing the time and effort to make the program work. You will need to keep a dating journal and plan on investing about 6 - 8 hours a week after you have completed Step 4.
Step 1--Past Dating Assessment: You'll write a stream-of-consciousness detailed recap of your dating/relationship history (minimum 2 pages, any maximum, no re-writes, or spell checks). Include as many details as you can remember. We'll review it. Then we'll engage in a frank discussion about the past. What did those who you dated or had relationships with have in common? What characteristics and dynamics worked for you? Which didn't? What did you do that was successful? What wasn't? We'll help you to pinpoint the sequence of events that led a date or relationship to 'go south'. We'll work together to discover patterns that have worked against you in the past.
Step 2--Tools for Today: Where are you today? What are your goals? What do we have to work with? This is our "reality check" time. We'll help you identify fantasy goals vs. attainable goals. Together we'll evaluate which goals are really going to work for you. We'll also take an inventory of many facets of your life: self-perception, attitudes, desires, goals, profession and income, education level, interests, hobbies, current level of socializing, wardrobe, looks, etc. to see how these fit in.
Step 3--Game Plan: We'll all agree on a customized Game Plan, which consists of a system of small attainable steps that will enable you to approach things in a different way. We'll also help you look sharper, sexier, and more available. We'll set a step-by-step timeline, but you won't go to the next step until you are comfortable working with the preceding one.
Step 4--Dating Phase 1 (Getting Ready to Meet Quality Singles): First, we'll put everything in place so that you are ready to meet the person of your dreams. We'll help you add pizzazz to your wardrobe, with Wardrobe Wakeup Level One ($300 value). We'll help you make your place a welcoming place for your dates with Your Place Take Two Basic ($300 value). In addition, we'll enhance whichever one of these services that you desire to meet your needs; we'll spend one day focused on creating as sense of you and your environment to be more romantic, sexy and welcoming.
We'll give your online profile extra punch with any level you desire of our Online Profile Tune-Up (up to a $199 value). We'll recommend which sites would be best to post your profile. We'll give you our Online Email Basics Guide. We'll help you to identify local venues for you to meet your type of quality single, providing you with a custom meeting place list, tailored to your interests and locale. We'll share conversation-opening techniques. Additionally, we'll coach you in whatever areas you ask for help with (includes 1 hour of coaching per week). Starting at Step 4, you will receive a 20% discount on all upgrades and workshops.
During this time, we will also accompany you on 2 complimentary Flirting Field Days...or Nights, so that you have time to practice what you're learning, and get reinforcement from us.
Step 5--Dating Phase 2 (First Dates and More--Before You're in a Relationship): We'll evaluate what's working and not working for you. How is this feeling? Are you comfortable getting closer to potential partners? What about red flags? We'll give you feedback and help you adjust. You will be able to participate in a Monday group recap. We'll continue to coach you in whatever areas you feel you need help with (includes 1 hour of coaching per week).
Step 6--Dating Phase 3 (When Dating Becomes a Relationship): OK! You're halfway there! Is This Person The One? You'll be able to find out more easily. We'll give you feedback while your relationship grows, and help you make decisions that are right for you along the way. (includes 1 hour of coaching per week).
Coaching involves helping you modify patterns that have not worked in the past to help you become more successful in attaining your goals. It does not involve us looking into your childhood, or analyzing why you do certain things. That is properly handled by a therapist. Referrals available.
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