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As a mid-life woman, you have mastered your life. You've established your lifestyle and career, developed friendships, perhaps brought up your family, and you're pretty confident about your place in the world. But, when you're dating, you may start feeling like a stranger in a strange land. "Who are these guys?" "How on earth can I connect with one of them?" The incongruity between your feelings of competence in the rest of your life and the confusion you feel around dating can be so disconcerting that you give up all together.
The big question is "how come I have it all together in the rest of my life, but I haven’t got a clue how to get into a happy, trusting relationship with someone? I can’t even meet anyone remotely appropriate." I can help.
Women are looking for answers. How do I find a nice man? Are all the “good ones” really married or gay? Where do I go to meet someone where I can feel comfortable? What about online dating? Should I approach him? Should I call him? How can I tell if he’s serious about me? What about sex – is he going to love me and leave me? He doesn’t want to commit – how long should I wait? He wants to commit, but he’s too controlling – should I settle?
We call our girlfriends for answers – each one has a different take on it based on her experience. Often, she hedges – she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings, so she might not tell you what she really thinks. Or she’ll give you the three date rule, the don’t call/do call rule. Anything from the latest self-help book.
At Get A Love Life, I have done extensive research, and have a great deal of experience speaking honestly with real midlife men. I understand how to help you make that real-life connection with the guy you desire. I will tell you what your girlfriends can’t or won’t tell you. I know that the vast majority of men are looking for relationships, what puts them off and what draws them in. The dynamics of midlife dating are different. I can teach you how you can create a successful, proactive approach to dating that will bring you the results you desire – while you remain honest and true to yourself.
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